Things that an accomplished and capable woman should be able to do these days. Dance properly, with a male partner, without looking like a twit Read stories to young children, doing all voices, without shame Go to a restaurant alone Go to the movies alone Cook something new from scratch, and I mean SCRATCH. Not a peek at the cook book Make your own Bed Make your own cake (at least once) Take part in a personal sporting challenge (swim a certain distance, beat a personal best, go in a fun run, etc) Travel alone Say no to your parents, especially your mother Have a pet Learn the basics of how computers and the internet work Be an expert on a topic, no matter how obscure Be able to look back after sixty years or so and have no regrets Conquer a phobia or two Go to a bar alone and order yourself a Drink Change your bed sheets at least once a week Host an impromptu dinner or gathering with minimal stress at a moment's notice Quit your job Apply for a new job, and be happy ab...