7 they say is the Number of perfection and the bible records certain things in the order of sevens, They also say it’s a lucky number 07-07-07 just might be the luckiest day ever? Heres 7 things you should do and things you shouldn't do) on 07.07.07 – the day of favor, divine favors ....if your not a luck person!! Number one, Ask of God that day Matthew 7,vs 7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: Number Two, Declare healing for anyone sick Luke 7vs7 Wherefore neither thought me myself worthy to come unto thee: but say in a word, and my servant shall be healed. Number Three; Do not have illicit desires on that day. Romans 7vs7 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet Number Four: If it rains that Day, Try and stay in. Genesis 7vs7 And Noah went in, and his sons, and his wife, and his sons' wives w...

Today began like any normal day , it rained most part of the night so the whole place looks messy and wet as is usually the case in Port Harcourt when ever it rains. Got to work, thinking ,Yes! its another day,a thousand and one things to do, got immersed in work and then much later started trying to fill out a application form for a credit facility from a bank. Then suddenly came the news via a senior member of staff, that STOPPED time for a moment. “ Mr CY is dead!”  Shouts and cries filled the entire office, its not true, oh my God it cant be, this cannot be true. How can CY die? Mr Cyracuse Onyeh "Cy "  for short is one of my colleagues and also  one of the office favorites. He took ill last week, and we all thought it was just like any other sickness possibly malaria, so nothing serious he will get well in no time. On Monday the 2nd  July 2007,two colleagues from the office was at the hospital to see him, and he got discharge  from the...

So much talk about corruption, by... you know who.... Setting up,EFCC,ICPC bla , bla, Bla !!... Now look at THE man, the incumbent Governors of His party and His conspirators the entire PDP as they rape Nigerians in the open, and impose themselves on Nigerians ones again, by Hook and by crook. See what’s going on in EDO state, Delta , Anambara, Oyo,Platue etc. Lets ask our self the question, if these people are really going there to server, why must they get there at all cost? The only reason they are doing this is , they want to control the power and the wealth of the nation for themselves PERIOD!. They sure as hell, don’t need our votes to do that, they have Rigged and rigged it well,THE man has ones again played god! Presidential elections! No way, it’s a selection by Mr. Biggs already.We took the pain to register to Vote, came out despite the treat and the violence in most parts and @ the end of the day, the incumbents used the instrument of INEC and power that they control to swin...

There’s an anger perpetuated by the fact that the job hunting system slowly and systematically strips men and women of their self esteem and leaves them feeling devalued and discarded by our society. Our instinctive reaction of anger and sometime fierce anger becomes a burning fire within that gradually consumes us if not checked. If we are wise we must learn to let go of this anger and get on with our life. Enjoying the process, of hunting requires a paradigm shift. A renewed vigor and constant self check in order not to slip into depression resulting from some rejections. Try the NUMBER GAME. In the gambling world, if you place sufficient bets on enough different numbers, one of them is bound to pay off (that’s the Number game). In job hunting you have to play the number game, how do you do that, Cv’s/ Resumes. Yes that’s how you play the game. If you are using the resume/cv’s you have to play them just like a number game, send out just as many as you possible can in respon...

We ask our self the question, why do we go through this? Why dose the job hunting system and virtually all company in this country put us through all this? The path is the same for most people; we face the same obstacles, make the same mistakes and face rejection after rejection on our applications. Only a hand full won’t go through the usual stress of securing a good job.So lets look at it, is it the economy downturn that’s the problem? in this case the answer is No!, on the contrary there are indices showing our economy is growing, hence there are more jobs being created.It’s the “system” our system is such that we are absolutely tossed out of school to national services, to eventually become unemployed. We kick against the dust, and throw punches at the wind ,trying to secure a Good job fast, when that seems not to come, we settle for just any thing and even that still is not forth coming.Gradually, only gradually we begin to learn what the rules of this “system” are, what are t...

Goodday, good people, I am currently doing some personal research on the job market and job hunting, its become a daunting task for most young people, many folks come out of school armed with degrees and Diplomas and end up getting aged in the process of seeking a job. Well to such a one, I ask, is there hope?The clock is ticking and its already 2 mins to midnight.A job hunt seems the loneliest task in the world. And we wonder: is it this difficult for other people?Well my friends the answer is YES!Are other people this discouraged and desperate and frustrated and so low in self esteem after a spell of job hunting?The answer again is Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!In this search, we dutifully send our resume... to every nook and cranny of the job market and then wait!. Wait! Wait!At this point our worth seems increasingly questionable even in our own eyes. We start talking to everyone who will listen, and listening to everyone who will talk with us, and thinking, that surely there must be someone wh...

"Though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again." As M. Dunham wrote, "Sir Edmund Hilary was the first person to conquer Mt. Everest. The first time he tried, he failed. He was knighted by the Queen of England, and at the gala occasion, on the wall behind the head table, was a huge picture of Mt. Everest. The people gave him a standing ovation for even daring to attempt the climb. When they ceased applauding, Hilary turned his back to the audience, faced that picture and said, "Mt. Everest, you have defeated me once and you might defeat me again. But I'm coming back again and again, and I'm going to win because you can't get any bigger, Mt. Everest, and I can."* Great attitude! What a difference it would make if we felt the same when we face the mountains in our lives. The reality of life is that we learn more through our failures than we do through our successes. Successes are satisfying and they are important to keep us encouraged. Howev...

IBB, Never Again! THATS WHAT I SAID!, and that’s what’s happening, IBB steps aside, what ever the reasons he is giving as flimsy as it sounds, to me it don’t matter, what matters is that HE (IBB) is out of the race for now and forever, So for once i too think this man has done one wise thing, Otherwise, i know he would not have survived 8yrs as the president of the great country Nigeria. My prayer now is that, the right man for the Job, with a heart of service and the know -how to manage the wealth and people of this nation in the best possible way, wins the fort coming presidential elections. For all the crooks that still want to put Nigeria in side their pockets, it wont work, you have had your share of the never finishing national cake, go and eat what you have, leave what’s left for the masses and the future. That’s our prayer, that’s the goal.... Let’s for once see a Nigeria we can all truly say “Things are getting Better"

Ibb, Never Again! THATS WHAT I SAID!, and that’s what’s happening, IBB steps aside, what ever the reasons he is giving as flimsy as it sounds, to me it don’t matter, what matters is that HE (IBB) is out of the race for now and forever, So for once i too think this man has done one wise thing, Otherwise, i know he would not have survived 8yrs as the president of the great country Nigeria. My prayer now is that, the right man for the Job, with a heart of service and the know -how to manage the wealth and people of this nation in the best possible way, wins the fort coming presidential elections. For all the crooks that still want to put Nigeria in side their pockets, it wont work, you have had your share of the never finishing national cake, go and eat what you have, leave what’s left for the masses and the future. That’s our prayer, that’s the goal.... Let’s for once see a Nigeria we can all truly say “Things are getting Better"

Just this morning I had a Heated argument with some of my colleagues at work, who said “like it or not IBB, is NIGERIA’S next PRESIDENT”. Its they opinion and they are free to voice it out, but its Not going to happen. Why? Well let me explain. As it stands now, most people say, Vote or not, someone like IBB can become the next president of this country, I somewhat agree.But let’s not forget one thing, GOD still exist and HE sure rules over the affairs of men. So if one man, and his fellow Evil genius, think they can fool over 100 million people and do that twice in our life time, they must be out of their mind, Infact they are out of there minds. God the creator of the heaven and the earth, will surely be the last one to judge on this matter. How can IBB, say he wants to rule this same country, he ones ruled 8 good yrs and left it for the worse?, how can he say he wants to rule a country he failed to appear before its reconciliation commission to defend himself?, how can IBB be genui...

Whilst it is true that we are neither sanctified nor justified by the law, it is also true that Jesus will reject those who He calls "workers of lawlessness". Jesus comandment was to love God and our neihbour. And when it comes to the later, Jesus said love your neighbour as yourself. But how do we love God in ways that are acceptable to Him? Caine reasoned that the method of his worship would be acceptable to God, for he had love for God, and made his sacrifice to God with a clean concience and a heart filled with gratitude and love towards God. Still, God refused to accept it because it was not done in accordance with Gods instructions. It was not even a 'law' by this stage, but it was an instruction nonetheless. One can say that while Caine came with the right attitude otherwise, it was not one of obedience. And it was the lack of obedience that caused not only the doewnfall of his parents, but also caused God to say, why be upset? You know that if you do what is r...

Can we just stop for a min!! and have a reality check BABA OBJ!! PLEASE... not some more mourning days, the being deeply sobered and the usual flag below half mast and the ordering immediate investigations BLA BLA BLA!!, and before you can say Jack Robinson , its News of another crash. Its seems its like a routine now, its no big deal, I don’t want to believe that’s the way they see it, but am afraid it looks like that, cuz as long as the presidential jet is A OK! We can fly and old rickety plan on our sky’s WHY oh, why ... it’s a colossal lose of Human capital, from Dr to Pastors, engineers to bright young school children, from a whole family to a single young lady and now a WHOLE Sultan, and two offspring’s. ... I say we stop Hold on sec and check before we wreak ourselves.... it’s deeper than what the eyes can see. God Save Nigeria, Lord Show mercy again... One more Loss, all Departed REST IN PEACE. To the families, Time stands still Now, so what can one say to you guys, Only the cr...

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The long beef B/W Def jam Records CEO /club 40/40 owner Shawn Carter aka (.Jay Z). and lyrically acclaimed Nasir Jones aka (Nas), has been squashed. Nas left colombia records and is now signed to Def jam , in jay’s own word he is not Nas’s boss by signing Nas on def jam , ‘‘It’s a partnership’’….watching the duo on MTV last night, both looked really mature and spoke as two true black enlightened individual, not some Black man cursing and swearing, with bling bling all over they teeth, necks and fingers… Way to go Negro! Lets Pray others fellow suit.

As we start to date, we tend to focus on our ability to attract someone else. Like the bachelors on "The Dating Game," we often work to meet the imagined criteria of the potential date. Problem is, this one-down attitude keeps us from evaluating what we want, and can also make us less attractive. So, put down your mirror for a moment and notice what turns you on. Ask yourself, "What excites me in another person?" If you respond "a nice butt," that's great, but not complete. Chemical reactions are sparked by a combination of body, personality, mind, and spirit. It's how the person relates to you, makes you laugh or inspires you. One of the most exciting opportunities of dating is the chance to experiment with different combinations of these factors. Yes, it's a complex mix. But the more we sort out what we want and don't want, and the closer we get to the winning formula, the more likely we will find it -- and have chemistry! The way you...

"Hot and Humble and ready to rumble" Here is the Profile of a  friend of mine.... Survey Nick name ? kingskidd Were you named after anyone ?i dunno My Name means? …the persistant woman(Queen) Do you wish on stars? most times When did you last cry? i dunno Do you like your handwriting? sure, i LOVE it What is your favorite lunch ? Eba n Okro soup with snail n sea food What is your birth date? …26th sept.… What is your most favorite CD? Rex Lawson n Johnny Gill… If you were another person, would YOU be friends with you? Yeah, i'd kill to be frens wiv moi… Do you have a journal? nah! stopped kipin one.. it always causes trouble whenever someone else sees it… Do you use sarcasm a lot? most.....most times..... Would you bungee jump?....... olboy, ur brain dey touch.. which kine ruff play be that?... Do you untie your shoes when you take them off? …it depends on the situation… Do you think that you are strong? ...

QUESTION : Under what circumstances do sex on the first date occur: ANSWER: Typically when neither party really cares about each other. "If you do it, chances are it's not going to go anywhere. If you both know it's not going anywhere, then there's nothing wrong with it." See comments and right advice. Wendy Shalit comments : But I'm wondering, if no one wants the relationship to go anywhere, aren't there better ways of expressing antipathy than having intimate relations? I mean, why not try boxing? It's less likely to result in STDs and children and then these people could really express their dislike for each other. What do you think? Sara comments :  When I dislike someone—or merely feel that the relationship is going nowhere—I tend to not want to waste any more time on that person. Boxing may be better, as you suggest, but probably not worth the energy. I would prefer to just go home (by myself), sit on the couch, watch some televisio...

Sharon Stone recently gave this awful advice to teens An article in Contact Music UK reports Stone as saying: Sharon Stone –“Young people talk to me about what to do if they're being pressed for sex? I tell them: oral sex is a hundred times safer than vaginal or anal sex. If you're in a situation where you cannot get out of sex, offer a blow job”. Now thats crazy It's hard to imagine advice that could possibly be worse than this, not even in the worlds worst Gallery of Bad Advice. Never mind how many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex. Teens really do have the right to say no--entirely--to sex. This may seem novel nowadays, but isn't it better to give them the tools to say no, if that's what they want to say, instead of sending them the message that they'd better have some sexual favor to offer? What about their value as individuals, apart from their ability to offer sexual favors? If someone is really "pressing" a girl for sex, as Stone...

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Sharon Stone recently gave this awful advice to teens, Sharon Stone recently offered this bit of advice to teenage girls: if they don't want to have sex and they're feeling pressured, just offer oral sex instead.An article in Contact Music UK reports Stone as saying: Sharon Stone –“Young people talk to me about what to do if they're being pressed for sex? I tell them: oral sex is a hundred times safer than vaginal or anal sex. If you're in a situation where you cannot get out of sex, offer a blow job”. It's hard to imagine advice that could possibly be worse than this, not even in our Gallery of Bad Advice. Never mind how many STDs can be transmitted via oral sex. Teens really do have the right to say no--entirely--to sex. This may seem novel nowadays, but isn't it better to give them the tools to say no, if that's what they want to say, instead of sending them the message that they'd better have some sexual favor to offer? What about their ...